As a married man, you’ve probably been tempted to cheat many times. Well, having an affair may be exactly what your relationship needs. It’s relatively easy to not get caught, and we talked about how you can make sure of this below.
Go On Vacation
You want an affair, not a mistress. There are several ways you can meet someone to have a steamy night with. The best is to go on vacation. Don’t go alone, though – your wife might be suspicious. A friend may also be wanting to have an affair. It could be a boys’ trip that your spouses won’t suspect. You can go to a different country or region where you know you won’t get caught.
Just make sure that you plan the trip carefully. Someone your partner knows may be at the location too. They could catch you with another girl.
Don’t Get Too Comfortable
You know what they say about getting too cocky. Once you start becoming too confident with your affair, you could slip up and get caught. Remember that you’re putting a lot of things at risk so you need to always be on your toes.
The worst thing you could do would be to bring your mistress home. Who knows when your wife and kids would get back?
Go Out More
You probably will go out to see your lover. Leaving home often, especially at odd hours, would make your partner suspicious. It’s best to start going out often before you start seeing someone, such as to hang out with friends. You’ll be able to use this as your alibi. Maybe you could join a gym or a soccer club?
Have another Bank Account
Tying in with the above point, you’ll probably be spending on hotels to meet the other women. You probably share your bank account with your wife. Even if she doesn’t check your spending, she might find out what you’ve been up to as the bank may notify her of all the purchases you’ve been making. It’s an amateur move to not create a separate account. You can cover your tracks if you spend on everything with cash instead of a debit or credit card.
Always Shower Before Going Home
Don’t go home without showering. You might have the scent of the woman you’ve met all over you. Once you shower, go out for a bit. This will get rid of the soapy smell and make you smell normal. Or else, your wife may become curious as to why you smell like you’ve just showered.
You can hide what you’ve been up to by changing into the clothes you left the house in.
Be Smart about the Girls You Meet
You can’t just have an affair with anybody. If it’s someone you already know, there will already be an emotional connection between the two of you. When you start getting intimate with each other, it’ll be very easy for feelings to arise. Your best bet would be to use a site like swipe-affair, which is full of people who are after no strings attached flings.
When scouting through affair dating sites and apps, talk to the people you’re going to meet with beforehand. This will alert you to any red flags.
Your Family Comes First
Having an affair is a great way to blow off some steam. Your marriage might be in a good place, but maybe you don’t feel satisfied in the bedroom. If you don’t do something about this, your marriage could fall apart. That’s why having an affair can help. Just don’t forget that your partner and kids come first. If you put your mistress before them, not only will you make her feel more important, but you’ll probably get caught, and wreck your marriage in the process.
Unfortunately, many people still view extramarital affairs negatively. However, it may be exactly what you need. You’ll be able to save your marriage while satisfying your desires. It’s just that you have to be careful. Just make sure you don’t become overly confident. Remember to cover your tracks thoroughly. Having an alibi by going out more will also make your wife less suspicious.